The Ultimate DJ, Band & MC Checklist for Your Wedding Day

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Everything you need to make sure the music and mic moments hit all the right notes.

Your wedding entertainment sets the tone for your celebration – from romantic ceremony music to high-energy dance floor vibes. Whether you’re hiring a DJ, live band, or MC (or a combination), having a clear checklist will help you communicate your vision, avoid awkward silences, and keep your event flowing seamlessly.

This comprehensive DJ, band, and MC checklist will help you and your vendors stay on the same beat.


  • Date, time, and full wedding day timeline
  • Venue address(es) and setup access time
  • Point of contact for the day (planner or designated friend)
  • Electrical outlet and stage setup requirements
  • Equipment needs (speakers, microphones, lights)
  • Backup plan for outdoor events
  • Preferred genres for each part of the day
  • Songs to avoid
  • Volume preferences for different moments (dinner vs. dancing)
  • Guest demographics (age range, cultural considerations)
  • Wireless mic for officiant and toasts
  • Additional speakers for separate ceremony/cocktail/reception spaces
  • Lighting options (uplighting, dance floor lights)

  • Background music as guests arrive (15–30 min)
  • Instrumentals or soft acoustic options
  • Song for family/parents
  • Song for wedding party
  • Song for bride/groom entrance
  • Background music for readings or unity rituals
  • Mic for officiant
  • Mic or sound check for vows (if needed)
  • Upbeat exit song as newlyweds walk out

  • Light, upbeat music (jazz, acoustic, classics)
  • No MC needed unless introducing activities
  • Softer background music to allow for conversation
  • Optional: playlist of couple’s favorites
  • MC announces dinner service and any transitions

  • Confirm entrance song(s) for couple and/or wedding party
  • Practice name pronunciation with MC
  • Couple’s first dance
  • Parent dances (father-daughter, mother-son)
  • Song edits (if you want to fade in/out or shorten)
  • Toasts & speeches (MC to introduce speakers)
  • Cake cutting
  • Bouquet/garter toss (if doing)
  • Anniversary dance or other traditions
  • Last dance and couple’s send-off
  • Must-play songs list
  • Do-not-play list (and how strict you want this enforced)
  • Open to requests? Yes/No/Case-by-case
  • High-energy songs to get people dancing
  • Special moments (e.g., “hora” or cultural dances)

  • Announce dinner, toasts, first dances, and cake cutting
  • Introduce speakers and keep things moving
  • Coordinate with planner/photographer for timing
  • Keep energy up and crowd engaged without over-talking
  • Know when to hype the dance floor vs. keep things low-key

  • Send finalized timeline and key songs to DJ/band/MC
  • Share names and pronunciations for wedding party
  • Confirm arrival, setup, and soundcheck time
  • Provide vendor meal info (if included)
  • Have a printed version of the set list on hand

  • Communicate early and clearly. Share your vision, but trust your pros to read the room.
  • Plan key moments. Not every second needs a song, but the big ones should be planned.
  • Leave room for spontaneity. Great entertainers shine when they can respond to the energy in the room.

With the right checklist in hand, your wedding entertainment will go off without a hitch – and your guests will be talking about the dance floor for years to come.


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